Boyfriend vs. Cat: The Never-Ending Saga?

I appreciate you very tough predicament. There is no such thing as finding a good home for your cat so the cat's life depends on you. I appreciate you sticking with your cat and I also appreciate you boyfriend understanding that this cat's life depends on you and it will ruin the relationship if you give the cat up. You are an animal person and you can not change. it is up to him to find a way to make the adjustment